{"id":1791,"date":"2016-12-14T16:30:19","date_gmt":"2016-12-14T21:30:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yourvamentor.com\/blog\/?p=1791"},"modified":"2023-03-07T14:47:40","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T19:47:40","slug":"following-my-own-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yourvamentor.com\/blog\/2016\/12\/following-my-own-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Following My Own Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"

Certain times of year, picking up email can get tiresome.<\/p>\n

I notice that the busiest time for my inbox usually begins before American Thanksgiving, and continues all the way till the end of the calendar year.<\/p>\n

Before the ‘holidays’ as the US refers to them, things are relatively calm. (In Canada our ‘holidays’ usually refer to Christmas – from say the 22nd till the day after New Year’s Day).<\/p>\n

This year I have more email to manage than normal – since I purchased GAVA and CAVA, that it totally okay with me!<\/p>\n

And I am also slowing down my client work and transitioning some clients to new VAs, so my inbox is slowing down for that kind of work.<\/p>\n

So each morning I find my overly full inbox more of a distraction that a tool anymore.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s now time to take my own advice .. and unsubscribe to the people that I am not following.<\/p>\n

If I’m not opening your emails, I really don’t need to be receiving them each week (or each day, as in some cases!)<\/p>\n

Honestly, it was getting to the point where I would delete 100s of emails each morning, without reading them. That leaves me no time to actually read the ones that I do keep, even though I keep them.<\/p>\n

So now instead of just deleting them, unread, I am actually unsubscribing from them.<\/p>\n

Some of these lists I have been on for years. It felt like a bit of a betrayal to unsubscribe, but they are not serving me if I never open them up (and I am not serving them by being a good mailing list member!)<\/p>\n

The first day I unsubscribed from about 50. I could hardly believe it. It took time – time that I don’t have two weeks before Christmas! So I decided to manage it better.<\/p>\n

Each morning now I unsubscribe to whatever came in over the last day or so … just up to 12 lists. That helps me to manage my time, and it still gets the job done.<\/p>\n

It’s like taking weight off – you can’t take it all away much faster than you put it on! So a bit at a time works.<\/p>\n

Same with this. The pile of emails coming in every day is definitely going down. This morning I only got 7 that I had to unsubscribe from.<\/p>\n

And I’ll keep it going – it’s a much more manageable task now.<\/p>\n

And the ones that I am keeping I am reading! What a concept! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

For the long-term people I had been subscribed to, here’s my logic: when I see something that you are doing that interests me, I can always jump back on your list. But for now it’s not a good fit.<\/p>\n

How many lists do you subscribe to? Have a look at what’s coming in to your inbox every day. And check what you are doing with it.<\/p>\n

If you are feeling stressed out every morning<\/a> because of your email, maybe you need to do the same!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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