{"id":2900,"date":"2021-04-14T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-14T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yourvamentor.com\/blog\/?p=2900"},"modified":"2021-04-13T22:09:21","modified_gmt":"2021-04-14T02:09:21","slug":"saying-no-virtual-assistant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yourvamentor.com\/blog\/2021\/04\/saying-no-virtual-assistant\/","title":{"rendered":"How Often Do You Say No as a VA?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

When is the last time you said no to a client?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A lot of Virtual Assistants I talk to say one of their biggest issues is doing tasks they don\u2019t want to do every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For some reason, they think they need to do whatever their clients ask them to do.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

But here\u2019s the thing \u2013 you are not their employee. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, they pay you to do work for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that they get to decide what you do each day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are a business owner in your own right \u2013 and you get to decide what services you offer \u2013 and which ones you turn down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are saying yes to your clients when you would prefer to say no, it\u2019s time to stop.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your VA business will become a grind a lot sooner than later if someone else is basically treating you like an employee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s how to make that change now, so you are making the decisions on what you do for each client: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Define a scope of work.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When you define which tasks you will do for a client, the expectation can be set for both of you to understand what your work together will include \u2013 and what it won\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Take charge of your production calls.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you aren\u2019t taking charge of your project list and advising the client of what you need and when, you are sitting back and acting like their employee. And guess what? That\u2019s how they will treat you. Run your production call with an agenda, and act like the business partner that you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Say no when you want to say no.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you are doing things you don\u2019t want to be doing, it\u2019s entirely your fault for not turning down the task. Because you don\u2019t have to do anything that you don\u2019t like doing or aren\u2019t skilled at. If you want to say no, you must do so. It will help you preserve your expertise and reputation as a professional VA.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Saying YES when you want to say NO is so common that most VAs I know have done it at least once. Yes, so have I. Many more times than once!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it\u2019s a cycle that you can stop. It takes a little bit of confidence and some clear communication with your clients. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will always work out to your benefit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, you started your business so that you can provide services you love for clients you love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now is the time to start doing exactly that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d love to help you. Join me for the Inspired Action VA Mastermind<\/a><\/strong> group. It\u2019s a small group mastermind that meets weekly via Zoom. We can help you make decisions, implement strategies and plans, celebrate successes, and work through losses. It\u2019s just $100\/month for 3 months. It\u2019s private coaching for the cost of group coaching. Stop struggling to get through your VA business alone. Join this small group and start taking inspired action to move forward to the success that you want to achieve. Learn more and register here: https:\/\/www.yourvamentor.com\/inspired\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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